August 29, 2012

The Chairwoman of the Board


The movement to achieve a more proportional representation of women on boards in most of developed nations repeatedly pops up over the last year or two.  I see it reading the newspaper. I hear about it attending a lecture at the University.  I talk to women who want to lead about it because I am one of those women.   It is no coincidence, the words “women on boards” floats in my head – I have subconsciously chosen for it to be a mantra of mine. I have the art of execution as a life mandate. I love making decisions.  I love strategic planning.  Since my days at General Motors Corporation when the Director of Global Security told me it was why my answers were the best; I rely on my common sense and social intuition to guide me.  I have experience in leadership through adversity that most people cannot comprehend having worked on the Somali border with refugees.  My Master of Public Administration degree is really just a simple addition to the fact that I have a great deal to contribute.  Like many women who are highly qualified, skilled, and ambitious, I want the right venue to direct my energies.  The boardroom is it. 

I am not there yet for a couple of reasons.  I am only 32.  I have not sought out the opportunity until now. I hadn’t thought to – because I am a woman with a series of skill building roles and needed to climb to the level where I believed that I have a significant contribution to make. 

There is some hesitance.  It takes balls to lead - metaphorically, and I mean metaphorically even more so than literally.  I met The Honourable Nicola Roxon MP (Australia) today at a conference and commentary about her afterwards from the other women during evening drinks made it seem as if every woman who aspires to lead has a complex…uncaring, infertile, mean to their husband, political, selfish, a brat!  What about ambitious?  Caring?  Wonderfully fierce?  Holding her own?   One of the qualities I have always valued in women is their generosity of spirit, their warm hearts and yet, when it comes to other women who succeed all they see is bitterness and sacrifice (as if every win must mean a happy child or husband on the line. What about relishing the moment for them?  For US, HER time has come.

The hesitance contributed to my delay in pursuing a position on a board, but I refuse to succumb to this anti-women women-whispering manifesto.  I don’t mean to alienate any women who don’t want to be a CEO, MP or other powerful acronym.  I do not think less of you – in fact I want a position that demands the world think more of you.  I honor and respect the profession of women in the home.  I have great reverence for women who choose less of a career and more of a job because “someone” in the family had to make the sacrifice.  I did this for four years – I know the challenges.  And, whilst you may find no need for leaving this, as it is often a very happy place, I want to represent you and me, and the 50% of the population that we women are.  I am a feminist, in the sense that if it weren’t for the feminists before us I couldn’t make the choice to work outside the home, vote, or wear jeans!  But I am not angry or pushy, I just believe it is time to reignite the fire and finish what we as a gender began many years ago.  I embrace what is feminine in feminism – there is no reason for us to try to fill a man’s shoes when ours are as good or better anyhow.  I want to keep my head and my heart and demonstrate that Gender Equality has never been as much an issue as Gender Quality.  I want to motivate others to achieve their ambitions and allow us a footpath to empowerment without treading on the women around me, or the men who do well by us in their own roles.

And so, this is my first post.  Take a journey with me through presentations, videos, experiences, interviews, articles, and books and reviews.  I want to hear real views – whether you are an executive woman with advice, a business man who wants to know more, or a young woman boldly leaping into her own journey – I encourage you to post your views! The experience is not mine alone.  Indeed, it is global.  I hope that it serves others in stimulating conversation, in reflecting on what is working and what is broke, and in supporting each other in achieving Gender Quality!

Now, Let’s see what it takes to become The Chairwoman of the Board.